There is a large percentage of society who views sex as black and white but, there is a portion that explores all the colors of what it has to offer. BDSM has really raised some eyebrows ever since the "50 Shades of Grey" movie has premiered in theaters. All of the fans who were eager for the movie after reading the book, got exactly what they've been waiting for. The movie will arouse the pants off of almost anyone and have you wanting to turn their bedrooms into play rooms.
BDSM is a variation of often erotic practices or roleplaying involving bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and other related interpersonal dynamics. Given the wide range of practices, some of which may be engaged in by people who do not consider themselves as practicing BDSM, inclusion in the BDSM community or subculture is usually dependent on self-identification and shared experience.
In the article "A Loving Introduction to BDSM The myth is that it’s abusive. Actually it’s about trust and communication" written by San Francisco journalist Michael Castleman, M.A., has written about sexuality and sex research for 36 years.. In the child’s game, Trust Me, one person stands behind the other. The one in front falls backward, trusting the other to catch them before crashing to the floor. Trust Me contains an element of danger, the risk of not getting caught and getting hurt. The person falling places great trust in the person catching. When the falling player trusts the catcher enough to let go completely, and the catch happens as planned, both players experience a moment of exhilaration that’s difficult to duplicate any other way.
BDSM is similar. The myth is that it’s abusive and weird—whips and chains! Actually it’s about trust. When trust trumps the possibility of harm, the result can feel incredibly intimate and erotic.